Lia: Ayaw ko si mommy!
Ako: Ayaw ko din sa iyo! Ayaw ko yung hindi sumusunod sa akin!
Lia: hhmmp...(nagpapaawa sa yaya)
Bakit may ganon? gusto ko lang naman gumising ng maaga, magayos ng mabilis bago pumasok sa school, pero may ganitong drama? ngayon pang araw na hindi rin maganda ang gising ko...
tanong ko sa sarili ko, nasaan ang patience, understanding, wondermom attitude? nawala : (
ang nagpapasaya ngayong araw sa akin? ang pangalawa kong anak na si ali, ang pagkapanalo ng azkals! at ang samsung galaxy tab na makukuha ko bukas...
--Wondermom A. (siguro pagtanda nitong anak ko, mas magaaway pa kami!)
P.S. tumawag ako kanina sa bahay at ok na kami ulit ni LIA, sabi ng yaya, 4 lang daw silang pumasok sa school dahil baka napagod sa field trip nila kahapon...ibig sabihin pagod lang pala ang anak ko kahapon at di niya masabi na pagod siya at gusto pa niyang magpahinga, ano ba kong ina? psychology graduate pa naman ako pero di nako nakakaintindi ng behavior? ano na nangyayari sa akin : (
Showing posts with label children tantrum. Show all posts
Showing posts with label children tantrum. Show all posts
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Monday, October 4, 2010
Cry and the whole world cries with you!
What is it about a child crying that makes an adult go berseck and lose control? I'm no master at patience and understanding when the situation is like this. My eldest daughter cries a lot. She cries when she's not the center of attention,she cries when we are at home, she cries when her younger sister taunts her.
Last night, while hubby and I are eating dinner, she made that ghastly loud piercing cry, which really broke my hubby's patient demeanor. I intervened because I took pity already. The main reason of her crying episode, which she barely able to mutter is that ali (her sister) "kurot me". Hay. Is this sibling rivalry already? I had to also reprimand my other daughter because its not good to hurt people. Im sad to say that even if I read a lot of parenting books about smart parenting, what to expect the toddler years, etc. my hubby and I are always caught off guard. I really get angry at times, much to my dismay. I find comfort in knowing that these too shall pass. Wishing that we come out better, wiser, and closer in faith and love!
Have you been in this situation before? What did you do?
--Wondermom A.
Last night, while hubby and I are eating dinner, she made that ghastly loud piercing cry, which really broke my hubby's patient demeanor. I intervened because I took pity already. The main reason of her crying episode, which she barely able to mutter is that ali (her sister) "kurot me". Hay. Is this sibling rivalry already? I had to also reprimand my other daughter because its not good to hurt people. Im sad to say that even if I read a lot of parenting books about smart parenting, what to expect the toddler years, etc. my hubby and I are always caught off guard. I really get angry at times, much to my dismay. I find comfort in knowing that these too shall pass. Wishing that we come out better, wiser, and closer in faith and love!
Have you been in this situation before? What did you do?
--Wondermom A.
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